As the judge orders Usher and his ex-wife to find a way to resolve their issues regarding child custody, Tameka Raymond couldnt wait to get home to celebrate, she began the partying in the court. Still cant figure out the reason for her celebration.
Tameka is seeking full custody of their kids claiming that Usher is a heavy drug uses. Her claim triggers a lot of questions; did she just realized it–that is if it is true, if yes, how? if no then when or how long has she known this.
Was she aware of it before they got married, during their marriage, after their first or after the second child.
if she knew about it before then why didnt she say something then, why didnt she file for a divore on that grounds and get full custody of the children from the beginning, why now?
The thing is that parents that go to any lenght to deny the other access to their children for reasons that are solely based on selfishness, bitterness or an attempt to get at the other or to get something from the other are dumb and blind.
They have no interest of the children they claim to be fighting for. When it comes to raising children, the role played by either one of the parents can not be underemphasized or downplayed, children need a healthy dose of each of their parents to grow up to become healthy and emotionally balanced adults.
As slong as there is no concrete evidence that a parent can be of danger to a child separated parents should for heavens sake find ways to put their selfihness, bitterness and vinditctive spirits and tendencies away if they truly care for the children.
so celebrating like she did in court really seems childish, Tameka should grow up and be a mother.
This reminds me of a story in the Bible where two women were claiming to be the mother of a child, they were brought before a wise judge who asked that the child be split in two and each half given to each woman(of course there was no DNA tests then).
The real mother and rightful owner of the child promptly objected suggesting instead that the child be given to the other woman who was in favor of splitting the child.
The mother was willing to give the child away than have it killed— that is a mother and the judge of course knew immediately that the child was hers and she went home with her child.
Some people claim that Tameka simply wants more money while others are just lost of what to say but i say this, if you need more money then get a job, dont use your kids for money and usher if you are doing drugs then get a life for the sakes of your kids, the kids shouldnt be a reason to fight but a reason to be friends even if you are no longer together.